{"id":5876,"date":"2019-12-10T06:00:02","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T12:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/?p=5876"},"modified":"2019-12-12T15:36:02","modified_gmt":"2019-12-12T21:36:02","slug":"my-ten-biggest-accomplishments-of-this-decade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2019\/12\/my-ten-biggest-accomplishments-of-this-decade\/","title":{"rendered":"My Ten Biggest Accomplishments of This Decade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m going to make three posts here about the approaching change of the decade; two will be looking back, one looking forward. So with &gt;1% of the 2010s remaining, let&#8217;s get started&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>First, when I look back over the 99% of this decade that I&#8217;ve lived through, I wanted to once more acknowledge the biggest accomplishments in my life since January 1, 2010.<\/p>\n<p>These are the things I&#8217;m most proud of. So don&#8217;t whine and say, &#8220;But we became friends this decade, wasn&#8217;t that a good thing?&#8221; or, &#8220;We did that event together a few years ago, I though you had fun doing that?&#8221; Yes, yes, your friendship is a good thing, and so many events were fun, but I&#8217;m not talking about good or fun here, I&#8217;m talking about pride. Taking pride in big accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>So, here goes. Here are the ten things I am most proud of this decade, in order of pride:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2010\/08\/isla\/\">Isla<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2014\/05\/baby-3\/\">Emmett<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Obviously I have to start with my kids, right? I began this decade with one child; I end it with three. Isla came in to my life in 2010, and Emmett in 2014. They&#8217;re great. For a few years, I wondered if Owen was destined to be an only child, and I am so glad it didn&#8217;t turn out that way. They&#8217;re a good group, the whole lot of them.<\/p>\n<p>2. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2017\/05\/the-submit-button\/\">Graduated Hamline<\/a><\/p>\n<p>When the decade began, my education consisted of an Associate&#8217;s degree from Century College,\u00a0plus four credits from Hamline. As the decade progressed, I slooowly racked up another 65 credits at Hamline and, in the spring of 2017, graduated with a Bachelor&#8217;s degree. 4.0 GPA, too. I still can&#8217;t believe it. As a friend once phrased it, I really did go far with my education as long as I remember how far behind I started.<\/p>\n<p>3. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2013\/10\/deliverance-really-close-at-hand\/\">Published author<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In October 2013, my book <em>Deliverance at Hand!: The Redemption of a Devout Jehovah&#8217;s Witness <\/em>was published via Freethought House. Ever since I was in my early teens, I&#8217;d <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5923 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/71UlN9sPwfL-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"71UlN9sPwfL\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/71UlN9sPwfL-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/71UlN9sPwfL-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/71UlN9sPwfL-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/71UlN9sPwfL.jpg 907w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>wanted to publish a book, so this was a longtime in coming. I was very proud to have accomplished it.<\/p>\n<p>4. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2011\/09\/goodbye-apartment\/\">Bought a house<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In August 2011, I bought a house. My first night sleeping in it was on September 10th of that year. I&#8217;d purchased two houses before, but this\u00a0one is by far my favorite. I&#8217;ll say it again: I love my house. I loved it then, and I love it more now that I (with copious assistance from lots of friends) have made tremendous improvements everywhere on the property.<\/p>\n<p>5. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2010\/07\/i-married-two-people-today\/\">Performed weddings<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If you&#8217;ve read my book (see above), you&#8217;ll know that, in 1998, my sister asked me to perform her wedding. Due to a rule-obsessed cult and an insecure uncle, it didn&#8217;t happen. But I set it as my goal that I would somehow, one day, perform a wedding ceremony. That day finally came on July 10, 2010. I have since performed 17 weddings, including small <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5920 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1276169_10201914715298689_27707676_o.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>affairs in people&#8217;s living rooms, on docks, and in prisons; and large ceremonies in churches, community centers, and historic sites. I&#8217;ve performed weddings between a man and a woman, between two men, and between\u00a0two women. And, on September 9, 2017, I did perform my sister&#8217;s wedding.<\/p>\n<p>6. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2010\/12\/xmas-and-toastmasters-part-i\/\">Toastmasters<\/a><\/p>\n<p>In late 2010, I joined Toastmasters. After leaving the JWs, I was actually disappointed that I didn&#8217;t have as many speeches to give anymore. My father-in-law suggested I join Toastmasters, but I didn&#8217;t have the time or money. But then, a club was started right at my job! I could go during lunch, and I my company would pick up the membership tab! It was perfect. I have since served as the club&#8217;s Secretary, VP of Education, and President. I also served a year as District Director, have both hosted and competed in speech competitions, have been a club sponsor, and am currently ranked as Competent Communicator\u00a0Gold and Competent Leader Silver. The above link takes you to the details of my very first speech in the club.<\/p>\n<p>7. <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2015\/12\/the-little-free-library\/\">Little Free Library<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I am the proud steward of Little Free Library #33249. The library was completed, <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5921 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/24.-Kids-demonstrating-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"24.-Kids-demonstrating\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/24.-Kids-demonstrating-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/24.-Kids-demonstrating-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/24.-Kids-demonstrating-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/24.-Kids-demonstrating.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>installed, and opened for business on November 29, 2015. Click the link above to read my tale of building it and registering it. And click <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2011\/10\/little-free-libraries\/\">this link<\/a> to read how I first discovered Little Free Libraries.<\/p>\n<p>8. Promotion<\/p>\n<p>Well, I&#8217;m not big on talking about my work life here, but I guess it&#8217;s a big deal I got a promotion in August of 2015. It was my first promotion in over ten years, actually, and I just barely missed receiving any promotions at all in my 30s. (I was promoted about two months before turning 30, and then received this promotion a month after turning 40). The cool thing was, I managed to get the promotion without having yet scored the requisite degree (see #2, above).<\/p>\n<p>9. NCUR<\/p>\n<p>NCUR, or the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cur.org\/what\/events\/students\/ncur\/\">National Conference of Undergraduate Research<\/a>, is an annual conference that brings together undergrads from schools all over the country and from all disciplines to present their original research. I was honored to be invited to represent Hamline&#8217;s<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_5924\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5924\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5924\" src=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/NCUR-2015-300x158.jpg\" alt=\"Here's Hamline's group photo from NCUR 2015 in Spokane. I am near the right, at back.\" width=\"300\" height=\"158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/NCUR-2015-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/NCUR-2015-768x406.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/NCUR-2015-1024x541.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/NCUR-2015.jpg 1026w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-5924\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Here&#8217;s Hamline&#8217;s group photo from NCUR 2015 in Spokane. I am near the right, at back.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>History department not once, not twice, but thrice. This was all the more amazing since, unlike nearly all other students, I was not majoring in that field (I was working on a History minor), nor was I attempting an honors project. In 2015, I was able to attend NCUR in Spokane, Washington. In 2016, I attended in Asheville, North Carolina. And in 2017, I attended in Memphis, Tennessee. I enjoyed delivering my presentations, listening to other presentations, meeting new people, being with my classmates, and seeing the local sites. I had a wonderful experience each time.<\/p>\n<p>10. Nine New States Visited<\/p>\n<p>I have a very long life-goal of stepping foot in all 50 states. In 1998, I visited Texas &#8211; which was the 19th state on my list&#8230;and there my goal stalled for over 17 years. In fact, <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2013\/06\/its-tough-getting-to-number-20\/\">here&#8217;s a post from 2013<\/a> in which I bemoan traveling all over the country, yet not getting to any new states in a long, long time. And <a href=\"https:\/\/zimmerscope.com\/Verbisaurus\/2015\/11\/where-have-you-been-the-most-dad-states-edition\/\">here&#8217;s a post from 2015<\/a> in which I celebrate that I&#8217;d ratcheted things up to 24 states. In 2016, I passed the halfway mark when I landed in North Carolina (see #9, above), and I&#8217;m still, slowly but surely, ploughing forward. I am now at 28 states. The nine states I visited for the first time in the 2010s are (in order of visit): Washington, Idaho, Utah, Rhode Island, Oregon, North Carolina, Arkansas, Mississippi, and Connecticut.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m going to make three posts here about the approaching change of the decade; two will be looking back, one looking forward. 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