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Facebook is Killing My Blog

On: May 14th, 2009 at 8:39 am | Number of Comments » 2

Now that I’m on Facebook, I forget about my blog. So, here are some updates:
1. I went to a JW assembly! It was crazy, and a post about it will be coming.
2. I went to Seattle to work on Solace stuff. It was such a great trip and a great experience, and [...]


Is it time?

On: March 21st, 2009 at 1:38 am | Number of Comments » 0

I constantly second guess my decision to bring a child into this crazy world. Not because I don’t love my child, but just because I worry about what kind of world he will be living in when he is my age. I wonder if I should consider having another child, when I already [...]


The Story of How I Left the Jehovah’s Witnesses

On: August 8th, 2008 at 2:28 pm | Number of Comments » 11

I left the Jehovah’s Witnesses two years ago this month. To commemorate the event, I thought I would write about my experience with leaving and post it here. It is incredibly long, but I think it is interesting **********************************************************************
My parents became Jehovah’s Witnesses in the early 1970’s. I was born in [...]


Tired

On: June 24th, 2008 at 4:17 pm | Number of Comments » 0

There is so much to do, and no motivation to do it. I’m drowning in photos; to edit, to get printed, to organize, to put into albums, and to frame. I have The Birth Survey stuff to work on, I helped start a discussion board for women with birth trauma and now I’m [...]


“you just have to move on”

On: May 9th, 2008 at 10:23 am | Number of Comments » 4

We started at our new Chiropractor, which was recommended by the old one. He focuses on health and wellness, and not physical therapy like the old one did. We had to fill out tons of papers about our health, and what stresses us out in our life and if we are seeing a [...]


Birth Trauma and all that Jazz

On: January 13th, 2008 at 9:49 pm | Number of Comments » 0

Here is a pretty good article about birth trauma that I stumbled across today. It hits on all the points we’ve been talking about in my last post.


Response to Rebekah’s Comment from the Post: “Last Years Resolutions and This Years Resolutions”

On: January 3rd, 2008 at 9:42 pm | Number of Comments » 12

Rebekah wrote:
What happened during Owen’s birth was horrific. You also might be feeling guilt. But don’t. That sounds simple, huh. Let’s pretend. Pretend that while you were in labor you went to the hospital. Everything went horribly wrong, and Owen died. If that were the case, right now you would be saying “If he had [...]


C-section Rate At An All Time High

On: December 6th, 2007 at 2:22 pm | Number of Comments » 1

The CDC released it’s preliminary birth data for 2006.
Cesarean delivery is at an all time high of 31.1% of all births;
The cesarean delivery rate rose again in 2006, to 31.1 percent of all births, a 3 percent increase from 2005 and a new record high. The percentage of all births delivered by cesarean [...]


Owen remembers his birth

On: October 4th, 2007 at 3:04 pm | Number of Comments » 8

Owen’s language key;
( ) = sign language or gesture indicating a word{ } = my narrationHuh-uh = Uh-huh or YesHaaah! = this is either said with an angry tone to denote “yes, and I’m not happy about this”, or a high pitched one to denote “Yes! You are exactly right!”Uh-uh = NoHhhmmm = Yes! [...]


another snake dream

On: August 28th, 2007 at 10:09 am | Number of Comments » 11

Have I ever written about my snake dreams? I think not. Anyway, I have been having snake dreams since I got pregnant with Owen. I had a four month break after he was born and then I had many snake dreams again. I don’t have them often anymore, but now when [...]